Initially wanted to write about my meeting with a friend today but hurting words from Felin prompted me to write this first.
She said firmly to me just now "I am not a good husband!"
I felt so sad and I'm really lost over what else she wants me to do more in order that i'm considered good?
She said that I did not accompany her every morning to work and did not offer to drive her to work daily. (I off peak car leh). I reasoned that I worked late most of the days and very tired in the morning and my intention is to convert my off peak car in Nov when her stomach is bigger, thinking that she will get more by then. She just looked at me at an angle, shake head and make a disappointing sound back at me.
Also today, as she was all ready to go work, she said that she wanted to take urgent leave as she was tired. I encouraged her that if she can, don't waste her leave as the pregnancy journey is still long and use it when its more urgent in future.
For these 2 small issues, she refuses to talk to me now as I'm typing this on my phone. Sad that she 冷战 with me over this now...
Should I go work with her every 7am tomorrow onwards? Should I just keep quiet if she says she wanted to take MC or leave?
Am I really a lousy husband? I felt discouraged...
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