Because of the babies' crankiness, Felin and I had an argument on Sunday. I told her that we are carrying the babies too much and resulting that they will cry whenever we put them to cot without companionship. I really wish that my babies can play by themselves by the cot and do not need our attention 24-7. She said that its me and my parents to be the ones who keep carrying them and we are spoiling them. I don't agree with her statement and was unhappy. I refused to carry the babies for that Sunday afternoon and evening and ended up the babies crying more. I'll put the babies straight to the cot after feeding and do not even talked to them. Obviously the babies cry right after I put them to cot after feeding. We didn't talk for half a day and we just do our own stuffs. Things were settled by next morning. The feeling isn't good to see the babies keep crying as it gives me the feeling that I am a bad parent by not caring about them when they need the comfort.
Put the argument aside, we still have a pleasant weekend. We brought Joshua for dinner as Felin and I enjoyed Sushi Express at Whitesand. The aunties there really like Joshua and say that he is very handsome. We then went NTUC to buy fruits where Joshua really enjoyed seeing all the interesting things and people there..
The next day, Josiah went to church with us and he really sat through the full service without making a fuss. He just kept looking around and even smiles at other babies in the Church. He is so kuai and lovable.
After lunch, its lesson time for the babies with the fruits and they really enjoyed playing with the fruits. I kept telling them to pick the fruit I asked for but they kept picking me the wrong fruits. Lol...
The babies at 6m22d now...
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