Twice the Joy

Twice the Joy

Monday, January 31, 2022

The Season of Birthdays

 Its January again!!! The birthday season of my most important people which are my kids, Felin and my Mum.

Let me recap what we did for their birthdays this year.

On actual day, 12th January, we brought the kids for their favourite Sushi at Sushi Express and thereafter a Birthday song and cake cutting at my Parents place. At least a chance for grandparents to mingle with the boys. Then on the weekend on 15th Jan, we had organized a mini birthday party as per guest list from the boys. They are allowed to invite only 5 and they need to be selective.

Felin got to contact their parents to arrange the logistics as well as prepare the food, decoration, cakes, etc... I was merely ensuring all the items are in place by collecting on the actual day. Kudos to her for all the preparation despite her busy work schedule. (Boys, you better appreciate your mum's hardwork in future!!!)




The boys had lots of fun as they took the opportunities to showcase their toys, collectibles and watch "Ah Boys to Men" together while having their early dinner which consist of Pizza, Cream Puffs, Chicken wings, Yogurt, chocolate Coated strawberries, etc...

It was funny that Felin and I really like the girl that Joshua invited. She is so sweet and well mannered. Her name is Audrey but she is from a different school for now. Not bad, good taste by Joshua... 

7 years old now, handling their emotions are getting challenging. Both of them can get really stubborn and refuse to listen simple instructions nowadays. They often treat both of us like transparent when we talk to them and we need to keep reminding them to respond when we talk. 

Both of them wants everything to be completed immediately and will whine for immediate attention and can't wait a single second. Every moments seems that we need to handle some emotion issues between the 2 boys and need to seriously discipline either of them every other day. Its really tiring and sometimes I really admire those who do not need to go thru all these, especially those without children. Honestly, my work are affected by all these and my desire to be more involved with their schoolwork lately.

Shortly after the boys, we celebrated Felin's birthday next on 19th Jan at Artistiq Marina Mandarin and early celebration for Mum's birthday on 25th Jan. When I look at all these photos, can't help feeling how fat I am now. Am eating too much every night when I sleep late. Really need to change some of my habits...

As for Mum's birthday, we celebrated without the extension family because of the 5 pax rule in restaurants. Honest, I really enjoy the siblings times together. Look at how beautiful mum and Dad are smiling. Dad is getting really slow now and can't almost can't hear us. Need to shout at him before he can hear. But he can really eat well and generally still healthy and happy. I wonder if I'll be like him in future as I always see myself having much similarities with Dad.



Hopefully one day when Felin and I are old, the boys will celebrate birthdays with both of us with their families. Nowadays seeing so many young people prefer not to have fixed relationships and children anymore. Hopefully, they won't be like that in future. Lol...

Monday, January 10, 2022

New Journey in 2022

We finally crossed the new year and its time the boys embark on their Primary School Journey. Just an update of events over the last 10 days as a record...

28th Dec - Early hours at 4:00am, the boys woke up to prepare Phyllis's Wedding. They are tasked to open Nicholas's car door for their escort arrival around 4:45am. They were still arguing who shall open the door the night before until Josiah was chosen and Joshua to carry the oranges.
Glad that all went well and they were rewarded to play the Pokemon Gaole after our breakfast at MacDonalds. Good job, brothers!!!




30th Dec - Their last day in MYWorld. Took a photo for them with similar pose when they first entered the school nearly 5 years ago. Just see how much you guys had grown over the years and have to thank the school for taking care of them all these time and allowing us to work in peace everyday.




1st Jan 22 - First day of the year, we decided to go Cycling at East Coast Park. I have to put on record that its the first time the boys managed to ride a bicycle though a bit wobbly still. A bit beyond my expectation that they can master it as it took me like 16 years to learn cycling when I mastered it only in Secondary 4. Well done Boys!!!



4th Jan 22 - First day of School
We are allowed to accompany them during the first day and parents are given some sort of orientation. The boys are quite comfortable on their first day and seems to adapt well. Just to keep this as a record on this important journey. 

Got to be more serious with your learning from now onwards. I hope the motivation to learn have to come from your own in the future. Do not give up when you meet challenges and give your best for whatever that comes your way. 6 years in Elias Park Primary School will be a memorable journey for both of you...






First week of school for parents are not easy too. We were busy trying to make out what books and what food for them to bring to school, how much pocket money and how to encourage them to save up, etc... Even to extent which day wear PE T-Shirt and which day uniform, preparing their online learning system, etc... Quite hectic week indeed for me and Felin.